Am I Wrong?
Okay so I gave birth to my beautiful babygirl a month ago now & Iām seriously struggling with my BD. Weāve known each other since high school and were good friends and kinda lost contact after graduation (weāre both 25) so a few years later we reconnected and got into w.e tf that wasš so he breaks up with me (due to religious differences even though he knew my religion since HS, heās Muslim and Iām Christian) and I ended up finding out I was pregnant 2 weeks after the break up. He wasnāt there at all during my pregnancy & that was a whole hot ass mess in itself. He was there when I gave birth and signed her birth certificate & everything but heās been extremely inconsistent since. He doesnāt check up on her, doesnāt ask about her, comes to my house to see her MAYBE once during the week (one time he went a week without acknowledging her presence) and we got into an argument about that because he didnāt show up to her one month appointment and made every excuse in the book for it even though he was right there when we scheduled it. When he didnāt see her for that whole week (this was very recent) he asked to come by and I told him no because he didnāt bother to even check on her let alone want to see her. I did everything by myself (setting up her pediatrician, making sure she got her insurance, getting her birth certificate, etc) And now once again for this week he has yet to check on her or see her and he blames it on ābeing busyā. Iām just so tired of being the primary parent and he just comes and goes as he pleases and yet Iām the bad guy when I call him out on it. He doesnāt appreciate the fact that Iām taking care of her 25/8 and I thank God I have my family and friends to help. Iām just so over it and Iām really trying not to resent him but itās honestly getting really close to that point. Iām sorry this is so long but I just need to know if I would be wrong to not allow him to see her this week if he even askā¦.?
Looking for a mom friend.
Iām looking for a mom bestie. Someone who wonāt judge me but look at me and think omg this girlā¦Iām a pretty open person, kinda. Uhm Iāll either talk ur ear off or bearly talk at all, I can be out goin and energetic or I can be lazy and sit around. I either say whatās on my mind or I shut downā¦Iām very very weird(according to my husband). I enjoy Starbucks refreshers, ice coffee, kitchen dance parties with my kids, going on walks/going to the park,baking,grilling,bomb fires, boatingā¦if its outdoors Iām most likely doing it, unless I see a bee of any sortā¦then Iām running away like a b$ch..I want a friend I can talk to about literally anything no matter how dumb. I have 3kids 4y,2y,4.5m and two dogs. I live in Minnesota about an hr from Brainerd and Alexandria. If you think u can handle my multiple personalities or just think it would be fun to try Iām ya girl.š
