Looking for a bestie 🤍

Hi everyone! 🤍
I’m a proud boy mama to three amazing little guys ages 7, 3 and my sweet 1 month old baby. Life in our house is definitely loud, busy, chaotic at times… but so full of love and little moments I never want to forget. I’m married to my best friend and a stay-at-home mama from Fort Wayne who spends most days chasing kiddos, making memories, and trying to soak in every season of motherhood, even the hard ones. 🫶🏼I absolutely love being outdoors, whether it’s walks with the kids, park days, bonfires, road trips, zoo days, or just getting out of the house for some fresh air. Family time means everything to me, and I’m always looking for fun things to do with my boys and new places to explore. Traveling, making memories, cozy family nights, coffee runs, and spontaneous adventures are some of my favorite things. 💙
Motherhood has been the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done, but if I’m being real, it can also feel incredibly lonely sometimes. Between diapers, school schedules, sleepless nights, and pouring everything into your family, it can be hard to find genuine friendships and connections with people who truly understand this stage of life. I’m at a point where I’d really love to meet other moms and women who are kind, supportive, down to earth, and looking for real friendships too the kind where we can talk about life, laugh through the chaos, support each other, and maybe even plan playdates or little mom outings. 🥹I’m a very family-oriented person with a big heart, and I love deep conversations, making people feel included, and surrounding myself with positive energy. I’m probably happiest in comfy clothes with my babies nearby, music playing in the background, and a coffee in hand. ☕✨
Just a mama trying to navigate life, raise good humans, and find her village along the way. 🤍

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Do you think trans children grow out of being trans?

Someone close to me has a child that came out as trans. They are waiting to tell others in the family this "just in case" their child changes their mind or grows out of it. In my experience I came out twice, the first time at a young age and was repeatedly dismissed that it was a phase and was told not to tell others in the family, I went back into the closet, the second time I was much older and felt I had wasted my twenties after letting family gaslight me into thinking they knew me better than I knew myself. That's just me, I know others who thought they were trans and later realized they weren't, but I want to know how common do parents think it is for their child to not actually be trans after coming out.

*I will report any transphobic or hateful comments, you can make your point without being impolite. This isn't a debate on everything transgender, only about if parents believe their children when they come out or if they have doubts.

Where my girls attttttt

I’m looking for the mommas that want someone to check up on them almost everyday. And I’m currently feeling like linking up soooo wya?

Debating on seperation

I'm at a loss and not sure what to do my husband and I have been together for 12 years and 3 years married however my love for him and connection is fading his true colours really showed during my pregnancy when he wasn't there for me when I needed support and only came to one appointment with me since the arrival of our daughter he hasn't really stepped up to the dad role is always working late which he chooses too and really only helps on weekends. He barely even knows her ques and what she needs or wants and she is already 8 months old. I'm so lost on what to do and yes I have been talking to a counselor about these issues just good to hear others opinions

Am 38 & still looking for a friend

I really just want someone to chill with like damn
I really think women are looking for looks lol 😂 at this point ..like I don’t want to fuck you I want to be just friends!
Am just over it , it’s just gonna be me and my lil family at this point

Pls help x

Hey Mamas right, nothing to do with baby lool.

So usually my husband initiates sex and everything. Before pregnancy I used to initiate as well, but during pregnancy and after, I honestly don’t feel like it 😭. Even during pregnancy when we did have sex, I just didn’t enjoy it at all — I kept thinking about the baby etc. I’m now 2 months postpartum and definitely don’t want another baby anytime soon ofc lool.

But ladies… recently I’ve been thinking of ways to make sex more enjoyable again. How do I actually make sex enjoyable? Do you use sex toys? are you against them? Please feel free to share, I’m genuinely just curious!! Any tips would be greatly appreciated! x

Maternity leave anxiety!

I finish work in 3 weeks. I am terrified. I have no friends, as in zero. I speak to nobody other than my partner or mum when i am not at work. I felt so lonely on my last maternity leave and that played a huge part in me getting postnatal depression. I don’t know what to do or how to make some friends but i’m so scared of going through it all again.