Can someone please explain

Why every time anyone, especially other women, hear that I'm happy in my marriage they assume we're newlyweds? Furthermore, when they find out we're going on 11 years of marriage I've had a few people actually get angry. It's really putting a grey cloud around trying to make friends. I just don't understand. It's depressing af.

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That is odd. I have no explanation. I’m married for over 15 years and I’m pretty happy, never had negative reaction from anyone.

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Thats crazy eye hitting 10 years in October. You can't please everyone what matters is you're happy.

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“Misery loves company.”

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