What do I do I’m so done

My partner and I got pregnet very Early we start dateing on new years 2024 to 2025 and we found out April 1st 2025 I was pregnet and at first we had very mixed feeling Becuse were teenagers (I’m 18 now he’s 17, 18 in a month) so we dident reallt now what to do but we went trough with it anyways forward to now my baby is 5 months, my partner barley dose anything for him earlier today my partner was on his game and he had the baby (after I begged for a hour for my partner to watch him so I could clean) snd the baby stated crying I said “are you going to take care of him” then he said “I’m in the middle of somthing” talking about his game so I said “I don’t care the baby’s more inpotent” and he jsut ignored me and the baby’s till I had to go get him and feed him that’s just one of the many things he does on a daily basis. We had an argument this morning about him not taking care of the baby enough and me always being quiet“ bitchy because I never get time to myself and he said that he takes care of the baby all the time. All the time is him taking care of the baby for five minutes so I can go do housework or making the babies bottles and he denies that he says he takes care of the baby more than I do and I don’t know what to do. It’s driving me insane. I want an hour a day at least just to have to Myself but I haven’t had that since the day the baby was born and he keeps saying he’ll get better he’ll get better but he never does. I brought up the game thing because he’s always on his game. I brought it up months ago and he didn’t change at all for awhile and he ended up changing a little bit admitted to me the other night he was wrong so I asked why I never got an apology because whenever it would get brought up he would scream at me yell at me so I’m accusing him of being a bad father so I got so much shit and he never apologise and only admitted it to me the other night. He knew that he was in the wrong he didn’t tell me. I kinda wanna get one of those mini cameras and hide it just to prove my point that he never has the baby but I don’t know if that’s psychotic or not. If you have any other suggestions or thoughts plz let me know Becuse I have no idea what to do

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I recently discovered that my husband was cheating on me during my pregnancy and continued the affair after our baby was born. During the pregnancy he was cold, distant, and repeatedly told me he was “frustrated.” A few days after I gave birth, he told me he wasn’t happy and didn’t feel anything for me. I was heartbroken and scared.

I stayed with my parents for a few days, but he didn’t want me to return home quickly. When I eventually came back, I found messages confirming the affair. When I told my parents, they said they couldn’t help me and were more worried about social status than my wellbeing.

When I confronted my husband, he blamed me. He said it was my fault for not keeping him happy, that I should have expected it, and that he had done nothing wrong. He has shown no remorse, no apology, and he is still in contact with the other woman, who works with him and whom I knew professionally.

I feel trapped. I have no financial stability, no support from my family, and nowhere to go with my baby. Currently on maternity leave, I am worried if i go for a full time job then how will I look after my baby. All of my earnings have been invested into our property assets. I earn a basic wage, while he is carrying a significant amount of personal debt. However, he does have a stable job with a strong salary

I am trying to understand my options and find a way forward, but right now I feel overwhelmed and alone.

Need 2 vent

I got pregnant with my baby daddy 2 months of knowing him🙄 stupid Ik but anyways when I was pregnant he would always bring up his ex drunk and sober. He would tell me that if she wanted him back that he would leave me and our son and just a lot of stuff like that .Part of me understands where he is coming from since they were together since middle school (9 years together) I stay because I really do love him but now I resent him. I used 2 love 2 do stuff for him. Have his clothes ready for him in the morning, make him food and every night I would massage his whole body. When we fight he is real quick 2 want 2 leave me and usually I beg him 2 stay but a few days ago when we were fighting I told him how come with your ex you stayed even tho she put you thew a lot and you are so fast 2 want 2 leave me . He told me because his ex was the love of his life and I’m just someone he got pregnant and he would never love me like her . Now I don’t see the point of doing stuff for him anymore. What should I do?

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