Girls! I am having my first encounter with a guy tonight since splitting with my kids dad, the sexual tension over text and FaceTime has been INSANE. I want to perform the best I can, I want to be that positive, careless sex goddess in the god damn bedroom. I donāt wanna be an anxious nervous messā¦
Please girls, tips and adviceš¤£š«
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Babes, stop trying to be a sex goddess and just be present. The tension is already there. Relax, smell good, feel good, and remember heās hoping to impress you too.
Make sure you enjoy it for you

Just be you let it happen whenever it happens donāt be something youāre not itās normal to be nervous āŗļø

Consider what you want right now - Just a thing or a serious relationship..
just focus on you and being confident, and enjoy your time.
Have fun.

Put on the sexiest outfits, with you favorite smells and lotions, your favorite music if you're into it or music to set the mood, I would even suggest getting yourself started by pleasuring yourself ao you already feel in power and riled up and ready š

Honestly the best way to have sex is to do it like how most men do make sure you finish and are completely satisfied cause they will do the same

You should just be your self.

If you want to be a sex goddess then you are one. Itās a mindset keep it flowing, ignore your negative thoughts, listen to your hyper music, wear what makes you feel sexy (clothes,make up, scents). Then just remember you are that goddess!