Low labido

My labido is so low for sex, like if we didn't have sex again I feel I'd be okay.. but I do masturbate throughout the week but when it comes to sex I'm like eh, I'll pass. And it's really starting to get to me now because my partner is not satisfied, we do fool around a few times a month but I'd like to initiate and do more but I just don't feel it.

How can I increase my labido or change my mindset?

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I NEED ADVICE. NOWWWWW 😋

Girls! I am having my first encounter with a guy tonight since splitting with my kids dad, the sexual tension over text and FaceTime has been INSANE. I want to perform the best I can, I want to be that positive, careless sex goddess in the god damn bedroom. I don’t wanna be an anxious nervous mess…

Please girls, tips and advice🤣😫

Husband refusing condoms

I came off birth control a few weeks back as I want to give my body a rest (bad side effects)
We have been using pull-out method but im just worried everytime incase he doesnt pull out quick enough.
He wont wear a condom and just laughed when I suggested it.
We do want to try for another baby in a few months just not right now!!

Remote jobs

If you have a remote job what do you do?

I've spent the last 6 years working remote organising fitness competitions, however as I'm just getting to the end of my maternity leave my boss has decided to close down the business.

I need to find a new job, that's ideally remote, asap but struggling to find things due to my current role being so niche

Girl bestie

I want my own friend. I want a friend that I don’t have to second guess, that I can trust and vent to. I want a friend I can hang with or stay in with. Like we don’t have to be outside all the time let’s stay in and cook and drink. I want a friend I can do ratchet stuff with but also do classy stuff with. I want a pretty friend because I don’t want her to ever feel like I’m dimming her light nor do I want her to be jealous of me. I want a friend that doesn’t have other friends that don’t like me, it’ll never ever be peace like that. I don’t wanna have to wonder if you’re defending my name behind my back because your friend doesn’t like me. I want a friend that will forgive me for my mistakes like ima do her. I want a friend that doesn’t count favors. I want a friend I can introduce to my family and they actually remember her because she will always be around…family functions, family trips, holidays, etc. I want a friend I can spoil and feel the love in return. I don’t wanna feel like I’m being used for showing love. Life happens and you live and you learn. You definitely grow apart from people but I wanna grow old with my friend. I want ME out of someone. #WishfulThinking
#Denver,co

Why are women like this

Just so you know I’m a woman. I’m also the kind of woman who has no friends and can’t seem to make any. The more I try to put myself out there and befriend others I start to realize something. Women are incredibly picky and judgmental. There’s next to nothing you can say that a woman won’t find weird, offensive, or cringey and I’m so over pretending it’s not true. You all talk about desperate for mom friends? Half of you need a shrink, and you don’t have friends because you suck at accepting peoples differences and socialization in general.Constantly using depression and anxiety as an excuse for your ignorant behavior when you just need to stop hating yourself so much and taking it out on others. And tbh I really think it’s jealousy 🤷🏻‍♀️ If any of you actually wanted friends you’d stop being so judgy and annoying.

Can I put baby in for 4th day at nursery?

I work 3 x a week and baby goes nursery 3 x a week, I still have some funded hours left over so can I use those hours for the 4th day even though I only work 3x a week? It would really help me get a break/stuff done

Has anyone done this?