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I found out recently that my boyfriend, and father of my child, had sex with another woman. She reached out to me with the “hey girl” message and said she was pregnant (which ended up being a lie) either way he had sex with her unprotected!!! I kicked him out the house, but I can’t fight this feeling of wanting him back and giving him a second chance 😞

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Girl. No. He betrayed not only your trust and but he had unprotected sex. She could have any STIs.

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He will do it again you have to show him how you allow him to treat you.If you take him back he’ll know he can treat you that way without consequence and you’ll probably find yourself back here again.

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How has he been since you found out? Either way I think it would be very hard to trust him again

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He'll do it again! Don't!

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If you take him back you’re literally sending him the message that you’ll stay even if he betrays you so what’s to stop him from doing it again? That ain’t a man. Babe trust me there is a MAN out there who is WAITING for a woman like you to come along. And he’s a man who will protect and provide for you and love you unconditionally.

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Help

I found out recently that my boyfriend, and father of my child, had sex with another woman. She reached out to me with the “hey girl” message and said she was pregnant (which ended up being a lie) either way he had sex with her unprotected!!! I kicked him out the house, but I can’t fight this feeling of wanting him back and giving him a second chance 😞

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