Friendships

I know making friends on here is hard but I genuinely prefer chatting to through text before meeting up. I’m a bit shy at first and a
Bit reserved but I do love being around others. Is there anyone that would reply if I send them a text?

in our community

My husband doesn’t want have sex with me after birth

My baby soon will be 11 months! When I found out that I was pregnant we stopped having sex atv5 months! After I gave birth we had sex after 4 k months because I had to make a point and get upset if it was up to him he would happily not have sex at all!

Summer came all the time we had sex because I initiate it! After the summer holiday we were apart from each other for almost one month - I have been back for 1 week and he literally not even once he tried! Today we are going out for a date night which he insisted, I am annoyed that I need to leave my son behind and on the way I said what is the point about date night getting dressed and leaving my son behind as we do not have a date at home (meaning we do not have sex) I feel we are becoming roommates! He is amazing father and husband! I don’t work he let me look after my Baby and pursue my dreams! But I don’t want to be in a sexless marriage.

What should I do

My husband just got home from work got out of his work clothes and sat dawn and we were talking then I seen a condom under the chair he was sitting on in our room that I’ve been in all day and cleaned literally this morning and we don’t use them at all I have no clue where it came from me and him have been married for three years and I’m pregnant with our second child and he’s trying to say that it was mine from a previous relationship which makes zero sense and when I asked him where it really came from, he got mad and left our room

Trusting gym daycare

So my husband and I really want to go to the gym. He started going in the morning at 5am with a coworker but I will start going with him at night some days of the week. However, we don’t really have anyone near us that would be free to watch our baby that we trust when we go. The gym offers daycare services while we work out but I’m so anxious about leaving her with strangers while we’re working out even though it’s in the same building. Any advice on how to just accept the daycare services and move on?

Struggling with child starting school

I have 2 children. From a very young age I always wanted children. I then found out at 26 that I had endo and had fertility issues. I was unable to get pregnant. I then had a few rounds of IVF and finally got my 2 beautiful girls.

One started school a few years ago and is in her last year at her lower school. My youngest has just started school.

I feel heartbroken. I have no little people at home during the day now. I miss them so much and have cried every day this week.

I'm scared it won't get easier? I am scared of feeling lonely. They are my little besties and I feel so upset.

Has anyone got any advice or older children where you can tell me that there's so much more to enjoy as they get older? I will miss the little stage so much.

I always wanted 3 kids but not sure I can do IVF again due to costs

Parking at Southmead

Hi everyone, we are going to Southmead for our 20 week scan next week (on a week day at midday) and was wondering what the parking situation was like at the moment?

When we had our first baby 3 years ago, parking during the week was always a nightmare- usually got one of the last spots in the small carpark next to the antenatal clinic and could never even get near the multi-storey 😅 I’m just asking as the carpark I’ve circled in yellow was out of action for basically the whole of my pregnancy last time so wondered if the situation is any different now it’s open again!

Will probably find somewhere off-site with JustPark to reduce the parking stress if it is still a nightmare, but thought I’d see if anyone has any recent experiences to share first 🫶🏼😊

Christmas

Any ideas on what to get my LO for Christmas?🥰