When me and my man started dating I felt that the sex was pretty good. Not the biggest but he knew how to use it and compensated with his hands and tongue teehee 😝 now I feel like we only have really good sex once in a while because he's tired most of the time and we don't live together yet.
I'm a bit of a freaky girl and most of the time sex ends up pretty vanilla and a bit rushed for me. Recently I've found my mind wandering to past experiences and me desiring those
again and what it would be like to experience someone else. It also doesn't help that I still get a bit of male attention - I do not condone cheating in any way but it's almost like I have to make more of an effort to not flirt with these men because I just wanna like feel tingly down there 😭😂 like with my man I feel like most of the time I'm blowing him then having to finish myself off quickly because he wants to go to sleep but wants me to cum. Any tips? We've have a few discussions about what I would like etc but he seems to think our sex life is fine
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Me and my boyfriend of 8 years had this problem, I’m more of the vanilla one compared to him because I just want it to be over and done with sometimes!(we have two kids over 4years old so it’s hard to not worry about them barging in)
We tried different things like toys ,anal(you have to be really fucking horny for it not to hurt), and even tried a threesome(with a girl since I don’t like other men ). I wouldn’t recommend a threesome unless you’re like FULLY okay with it and won’t fight about it later because the guy always enjoys it a little more .
Id try foreplay and different types of things(sex outside,sketchy sex, etc.) and explain more that you do still find him attractive it’s just a little boring due to you guys do the same thing and it doesn’t ever change or ain’t spontaneous.
My son is almost two months. I’m just feeling extremely lonely lately. I’m basically home Monday to Friday and Saturday from 8:30 am to 7:30 pm. I put baby to bed every night rinse and repeat. My boyfriend is at a concert tonight and I can’t help but feel extremely sad, lonely, and resentful. I have a pit in my stomach. I also miss my bf as we barely see one another , talk , or sleep in same bed since baby. Do things get better? It really bothers me that dads just resume as normal. 😭 just needed to vent. If anyone feels same please let me know so I don’t feel so alone.

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Looking for someone to be my texting friend!!! Won’t ghost me either!!!

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I have no std. I don’t have a UTI. My doctor isn’t any help really. What is the problem with me ????? ☹️
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I went back to work once my baby turned 16 weeks old, so I was lucky to get almost 4 months of maternity leave with her, and my husband was able to stay with her until she was 6 months old. My aunt watches her full time ever since.
I just really struggle with the guilt of leaving her in someone else’s care, even family. I am lucky that my husband drops her off at 9 and I am able to be there to pick her up by 3:30 so she’s only away from us for about 6.5 hours a day, with 2 of those hours usually being asleep. I am good at my job, I like it and the people I work with, and I’m the main breadwinner. I don’t feel like I should quit but I just feel so much guilt that it’s not me with my baby all day, every day. I am also afraid she won’t feel as bonded to me.
Any other working moms feel this way? Every other mom in my family (sister, sister in law, cousins) are all stay at home moms so maybe that’s why.. I just feel alone in this.

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I'm looking for some friends! Motherhood can get quite lonely, so I'd like some girl friends who share some of the same interests as me. I'm into all things cozy, reading, crafting, some video gaming even. I'm looking for a no-BS friendship. Feel free to message me or comment :)

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So we been looking for a new bed and my man and his friend went to go get a new bed without telling me. So when he picked me up he told me he went and got us a new bed I made a comment saying ohh so you took him and not me, He said I was Unappreciative. When we got home I tested the bed and I didn’t like it I didn’t say nothing. So when I went downstairs I heard his friend make a comment saying ohh you’re going to see why I like the bed. Like wtf the bed choice is supposed to be between me and him not someone else like I’m the bitch you sleeping with not your friend. Like am I wrong for feeling some kind of way?
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