Is it ok to get feelings for a office colleague
It’s weird to ask but has anyone had this kind of situation getting attracted towards a colleague in office. I mean I still live with my partner and as such a problem but for sometimes I feel that I am having some feelings for this guy. We used to have coffee n chat together in office but sometimes some he talks flirty. And after office hours his chats sometimes are a bit on the naughty side. He knows I’m with my partner and he’s married too. So far it’s just a flirt but lately I feel that his chats make me wet as well 🙈. Should I tell my parter about him or stop chatting with this colleague. Or it’s ok until this crosses a limit 🤪
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No obviously it’s not ok? What are you even asking for, validation from other cheaters?
No its not and you should let your partner go and find someone who is loyal!! 😠 He is scum and is using you as a homewrecker because the dude is married!! Are you dumb why are you entertaining this guy?! Both y'all suck!!
Emotional affair is still an affair. If this was your partner would you be ok with it? This post is just disgusting.
From experience being the "other girl" and strung along with a load of empty promises, ditch the chats with the office guy. Especially seeing as you're both in relationships. It seems fun and exciting but its not real and will just end up in everyone getting hurt for no reason.
You will get your answering asking yourself if was your husband in this situation, would you be ok with this?
I get the point…I was just taking it as a fun …nothing serious beyond the chats….we both know out situations and priorities
It’s like having fantasies and imaginations nothing in real…isn’t it
That's how it be at first, til it get physical and then oops ..
You’re having an emotional affair… not okay.
This has to be rage bait.
Girl bye
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Is it ok to get feelings for a office colleague
It’s weird to ask but has anyone had this kind of situation getting attracted towards a colleague in office. I mean I still live with my partner and as such a problem but for sometimes I feel that I am having some feelings for this guy. We used to have coffee n chat together in office but sometimes some he talks flirty. And after office hours his chats sometimes are a bit on the naughty side. He knows I’m with my partner and he’s married too. So far it’s just a flirt but lately I feel that his chats make me wet as well 🙈. Should I tell my parter about him or stop chatting with this colleague. Or it’s ok until this crosses a limit 🤪
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