The title says it all... I need help with my blow job skills! I absolutely suck at sucking. My husband doesn't complain but he also hasn't actively asked for one since we were dating. I know my entire adult life I haven't been good at them but I feel like I want to be better. How did y'all learn? Do y'all have any suggestions? They make me feel incredibly powerful and sexy but it hurts sometimes that he doesn't want one. Maybe it's the pregnancy hormones that have me all twisted but I am desperate. Any advice would be amazing!
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Confidence, wet and wild girl! That’s honestly the only advice you need 😂

I would suggest you watch porn to have an idea because this isn’t something that needs explanation in my opinion.

Actually I would ask your husband to be your guide. Get some yummy edible lube and have him tell you what feels good.

I agree about asking your husband. Blokes have sooo many different needs and techniques they like.

Ask him what he likes honestly, I learnt my man likes abit of teeth and since talking to him about what he likes and doing it he loves em lmao

Watch porn or have him be your guide. My husband tells me what he like as I’m doing it
Sorry for the rant but I need to get it off my chest to people who hopefully understand my point of view.
My husband works a Mon-Fri job 7.30am- 5.00pm. This week has been their stock take so he's stayed behind Tues, Wed, Fri and worked Saturday. I've got a growth scan booked for Tuesday next week and I've asked him 3 times to come and he says he can't get time off work. And just for context he is the manager at his work.
Am I being unreasonable in thinking he should spare 2 hours to come to the hospital with me?
From my point of view, what if I have the scan and something is wrong? Then I'm by myself and he's over an hour away from the hospital.
Or do I just need to suck it up and go by myself.
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Help !I genuinely don’t know what to think about this situation.
I’ve been with my husband for around 8 years and we’ve been married for 3 years. I really care about our marriage and our relationship, which is why this has affected me so much.
Recently, I accidentally came across some hidden chats on his phone. I clicked on one of them and saw that a woman had sent him a video of a sexual nature.
When I confronted him about it, he became very protective of the chats and wouldn’t let me see what else had been said. I asked him to show me because I needed some context and, honestly, I needed reassurance and closure. Instead, he kept saying there was nothing wrong, that there was nothing for me to find, and that I just needed to believe him.
Eventually, he deleted the chats.
His explanation is that he panicked because there were other personal things in the chats that he didn’t want me to see. He says there was nothing inappropriate going on and that I’m interpreting his reaction as something more than it was.
Since then, he has been begging me to believe him and saying things like he won’t do it again. But that’s actually making me more confused because I keep thinking, what exactly is he saying he won’t do again if, according to him, there was nothing wrong in the first place?
I feel like I’ve been lied to, and I’m struggling to trust what he’s telling me. At the same time, I know I don’t have the full context because the chats were deleted.
I’m not necessarily asking people to tell me that he’s cheating. I genuinely want outside perspectives. Am I being unreasonable for feeling suspicious and finding his explanation difficult to believe? Or is it possible that there is a completely innocent explanation for his behaviour?
If you were in my position, would you be able to take his word for it, or would the secrecy, his reaction and the deletion of the chats make you question things too?
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Any tips please
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The title says it all... I need help with my blow job skills! I absolutely suck at sucking. My husband doesn't complain but he also hasn't actively asked for one since we were dating. I know my entire adult life I haven't been good at them but I feel like I want to be better. How did y'all learn? Do y'all have any suggestions? They make me feel incredibly powerful and sexy but it hurts sometimes that he doesn't want one. Maybe it's the pregnancy hormones that have me all twisted but I am desperate. Any advice would be amazing!
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