I’ve been really struggling with maternity leave and feeling completely detached and angry (sadly with my son). Just wanted to hear from people that got through similar, I’m starting therapy next week and my baby is 7 weeks old.
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Therapy will help so much. I didnt have birth ptsd, but had pnd and therapy turned my life around xx

I struggled with ptsd nothing to do with birth but it can make pregnancy challenging

I literally chucked a dummy across the room yesterday, it’s normal, councelling and mama groups if you can and talking to us lot as much as you can, don’t be afraid to put baby down and step away for a few minutes even if they crying , helps me loads xx
Hey all, so I’ve not worked in 7 years due to multiple reasons, I left my previous job because I was fleeing DV, then lockdown happened, then I met my husband and had my twins, I feel into a deep depression, was diagnosed with ptsd, adhd, I struggle to get out, struggle with daily life but keep going for my husband and kids but recently ive been feeling I really want to get back into work, im trained as a senior career, working with dementia and end of life, I don’t know where to start anymore, I’ve lost all confidence and it’s been so long that will I get it will I pick up where I left off, who’s going to hire someone who has no confidence, I used to be able to speak to anyone and everyone, now if anyone speaks to me a stutter and panic then don’t know what to say to the simplest of things
Don’t know what I’m looking for, has anyone else had this and overcome it?
Xx
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He goes down at about 7pm and would stay asleep until 1/2am, have a bottle then straight back to sleep but has recently started waking up at 12:30 and not going back to sleep until 2:30am and then waking up again at 5/6am.
Do I need to try and put him to bed later? How long does this last? 🙃

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I’ve been really struggling with maternity leave and feeling completely detached and angry (sadly with my son). Just wanted to hear from people that got through similar, I’m starting therapy next week and my baby is 7 weeks old.
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