Baby doesn’t cry if I leave
Hi so this may seem a bit weird but my baby doesn’t get upset if I leave him with someone else. He doesn’t cry or anything. He seems happy when he sees me again though but I was just wondering as I was reading a post that said that babies like that could be unattached? If that is even a thing. Is this normal? Am I doing something wrong? Also do I sound weird 😣
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That sounds like a very well attached baby to me, he knows you will come back and he trusts you! 🥰
how old is your baby? separation anxiety tends to come in around 8 months, either way, it wouldn’t be easy for you or baby if they got upset every time you left, enjoy it whilst it lasts! if you’re concerned you can speak to your health visitor but all babies have different temperaments its not something youre doing xx
Sounds amazing and very secure. My 17 month old cries if I take one step away from him 😂
My sister’s child was like this until he turned 2, prior to that he never showed any signs of separation anxiety whereas my daughter was the opposite, she would cry hysterically if I left.
Ok thank you all! These replies have helped
Mine is exactly the same. And we have a super close connection. She is breastfeeding and co-sleeping with us. I am really enjoying that she is so confident and comfortable around others. I wouldn’t worry much if I were you:))
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Baby doesn’t cry if I leave
Hi so this may seem a bit weird but my baby doesn’t get upset if I leave him with someone else. He doesn’t cry or anything. He seems happy when he sees me again though but I was just wondering as I was reading a post that said that babies like that could be unattached? If that is even a thing. Is this normal? Am I doing something wrong? Also do I sound weird 😣
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