Please tell me I'm not the only one....

My LO is 5weeks tomorrow and my lovely MIL has come round to look after her so I can have a nap now my husband has gone back to work, but I just can't sleep when I can hear her crying downstairs...
its like electric shocks going through my body!!
I've gone down twice to try to feed her to sleep but she keeps waking up 😭
Please tell me this isnt just me and also that it settles down over time as my god I need to sleep!!! šŸ™šŸ»

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I was exactly the same with my son when he was born, probably for first 6-8 weeks or so. So exhausted, yet at the same time I remember couldn’t bare to leave him especially when crying🤣. It does settle. Hope u manage some rest.x

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Completely relate to this - I was absolutely shattered and falling asleep sitting up but still couldn’t bare to leave him for a nap in case I missed something or he cried šŸ˜­ā¤ļø it does get easier x

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Is she's fed and content could she take her out for a walk, the pram would probably settle her more and you can actually have some peace?

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I’d suggest a walk or ear plugs!

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Yeah I couldn't even let my husband hold him downstairs if he was crying, there was no way I could sleep. It's normal/hormonal

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Please tell me I'm not the only one....

My LO is 5weeks tomorrow and my lovely MIL has come round to look after her so I can have a nap now my husband has gone back to work, but I just can't sleep when I can hear her crying downstairs...
its like electric shocks going through my body!!
I've gone down twice to try to feed her to sleep but she keeps waking up 😭
Please tell me this isnt just me and also that it settles down over time as my god I need to sleep!!! šŸ™šŸ»

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