Anyone?

Anybody who wants to FaceTime and listen to me then and rant and just talk

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Birthday gift...

My child recently started nursery and got a birthday invitation for a first birthday. I'm not really familiar with the child, so was thinking to put £10 in a card. Is this an appropriate amount, or would £20 be better? I haven't been to a kids party in a very long time, so don't really know what is the norm at the moment. Thanks

Contriception vs pregnancy

Hey guys, so im just curious, but how long did it take you to get pregnant after you had your birth control taken out?. I had mine taken out not to long ago☺️

How do I tone down being over-friendly when making mum friends?

My partner says I come across as over-friendly and it makes some people uncomfortable, even midwives. I want to connect and make friends as a new mum, but I’d love advice on how to find a good balance. Has anyone else struggled with this?

How can do if my man don’t have sex with me ?

We had like a 9-month no-sex-at-all, no-intimacy period. I just have three kisses in the day, one when he came from work and one before go to sleep and sometimes I have one extra. A touch of his lips. That’s all

Is it safe to have sex?

This might sound really silly and I’ve been all over google/chat gpt but thought the best place for reassurance would be here..! So I am 40+2 just now and I had a sweep on Thursday. I was 3cm dilated and the midwife said she felt the baby’s head. I have since lost my show and had some pains but still no waters broken. Am I safe to have sex??? I wasn’t told not to, but I can’t get my head around (from google and chat GPT) that the baby’s head wont get hit? 🤣🤣 since the midwife was able to feel it with just her fingers?? I just don’t want to give my baby a sore head lol

TW potential abortion…

I am a mom of a lovely one year old baby, he’s my whole life, I love him so much. Since being pregnant with him, my relationship has been awful. We don’t have sex anymore (once every three months if that and it’s not even nice), there is no intimacy whatsoever. It got to the point where we are roommates. We don’t kiss, haven’t been sleeping in the same bed for a year (even though baby sleeps independently in his own room), we haven’t been on a date since I got pregnant. We argue all the time. I just don’t like the person he is, he’s making racist comments that make me uncomfortable and is overall very narrow minded.
8 weeks ago, we had sex once after months of abstinence… I got pregnant. I am now 8 weeks pregnant and I don’t know what to do. I have talked to him countless times about going to therapy but he hasn’t showed me even once that he cares to do that or fix our relationship at all. Yesterday was my birthday, I got an ugly pyjamas in a colour that I don’t even like… I know it’s not a big deal compared to all our other issues but I felt so lonely… I’ve been suffering with HG and feeling so crappy while taking care of our baby and the house and all I get is an ugly pyjamas… I wish he cared to fix things between us but unfortunately it seems very one sided…
Now I am at the point of thinking if I should get an abortion, go back to work and leave… It breaks my heart but I couldn’t possibly afford two babies while not working and all by myself… it’s either that or having to wait two more years until both babies can go to nursery. I am looking for an outside point of view here, what should I do?