Feeling upset a bit

So today I brought my daughter and my daughter friend to this Halloween
Event anyways they ended leaving me there cause it was boring and wanted to go home which was fine then my 13 stayed home with my bf and played games and stuff was with my sister and my nephew then we ran into my brothers wife and my nieces.. everything was going fine til I realized I felt so lonely .. even though I was with other kids my family I felt so lost and sad cause my children didn’t wanna be around me or just didn’t want to do fun things with me I guess I’m just jealous that my nieces and nephews want to do stuff with their parents and mine don’t wanna do much with me idk I haven’t stopped crying and my bf is asleep and I just feel
Alone

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Well, it sounds like you are a kind and caring mom who tried to think of something for you guys to do. Give yourself the credit of trying and maybe next time do an event that would make you happy whether they were there or not.

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U tried your best love but mext time maybe ask them what they want to do before u plan out something which might lead to this . Be happy love as they re growing they start changing not to make u upset or sad but because they want to be independent one way or the other . They want to feel how it feels to be grown ups so just leave them and dont feel bad . When they come for u for anything you could think of, guide them otherwise leave them alone . Trust me when they need u they gonna come to u

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So today I brought my daughter and my daughter friend to this Halloween
Event anyways they ended leaving me there cause it was boring and wanted to go home which was fine then my 13 stayed home with my bf and played games and stuff was with my sister and my nephew then we ran into my brothers wife and my nieces.. everything was going fine til I realized I felt so lonely .. even though I was with other kids my family I felt so lost and sad cause my children didn’t wanna be around me or just didn’t want to do fun things with me I guess I’m just jealous that my nieces and nephews want to do stuff with their parents and mine don’t wanna do much with me idk I haven’t stopped crying and my bf is asleep and I just feel
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