I feel like it was stolen

Long one sorry in advance… 2pm on Sunday was the last time I breastfed my boy and I didn’t know it was the last time 😩. Idk how I feel about it, he only has it for getting to sleep but all of a sudden Sunday night he didn’t want it and just wanted cuddles then yesterday nap time same again, then last night for the first time since he was a baby baby his dad got him down to sleep. I knew he was going to wean eventually but I thought I would know when it was coming or even me wean him. Not only was it comforting and a bond for him it was closeness for me too. Also I’m 15 weeks pregnant so not sure if my milk supply lowered or changed taste at this point. Anyone else gone through this and how to I get past this feeling?

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It’ll be your milk changing back to colostrum, some children don’t like the taste. I was sad when we weaned at 25 months as I’d have continued feeding had I not been pregnant but I learnt to really enjoy the cuddles which I never really got before because all he wanted was me for boob! You may find he gets interested again later on. Be kind to yourself x

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I feel like it was stolen

Long one sorry in advance… 2pm on Sunday was the last time I breastfed my boy and I didn’t know it was the last time 😩. Idk how I feel about it, he only has it for getting to sleep but all of a sudden Sunday night he didn’t want it and just wanted cuddles then yesterday nap time same again, then last night for the first time since he was a baby baby his dad got him down to sleep. I knew he was going to wean eventually but I thought I would know when it was coming or even me wean him. Not only was it comforting and a bond for him it was closeness for me too. Also I’m 15 weeks pregnant so not sure if my milk supply lowered or changed taste at this point. Anyone else gone through this and how to I get past this feeling?

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