Second pregnancy, same rude midwives!

Honestly, if I could go and give birth in my home country and then come back with my newborn I would. The bar is SO low, NHS is running midwives into the ground which reflects on their care and in rates of birth trauma through intervention, lack of experience and lack of care

Honestly, i sometimes think people don't know how good they have it until they have it bad in a different place. And then the people having it bad come here and they are amazed by how good it is here.
Sometimes you just have to accept how they are doing things. They will never ever send you for a test just because you want it, just because you are suspecting, and not even presenting symptoms. And toxoplasmosis is not even that easily transmitted from one person to another. I think you would have gotten away with it if you would have lied ab some symptoms 🤣.
And i also had my negative experience with my midwife and I changed her and even reported her; then i had an amazing midwife who actually listened to me when i was talking to her (probably because of what happened with the previous one).
And i also thought i was more pregnant than they told me (i also knew my ovulation and conception date), but apparently they need to know the period dates as that is how they are counting,not from conception.

I had a terrible midwife my first pregnancy, they placed me with her again for me second so I called up and asked to swap! If you can do that I suggest you do! My midwife was awful she would forget to do urine and blood tests etc and I’d have to remind her she said because I’m young everything will be straightforward so she didn’t have to talk to me about things going wrong when in fact my labour and birth ended up high rush then when we had my daughters newborn appointment she completely ignored my worries about my daughter leading to my daughter being in and out of a children’s hospital and gps all the time in the first few months of her life!