Breastfeeding safe Lube

Hi mamas! I’m 4 mo pp and sex has been pretty painful mainly due to me being dry down there. Any breastfeeding safe lube recommendations please?

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5 day old baby sleep! Help!

Hi,
Can someone please reassure me things will get better. My newborn is only 5 days old and will not do more than about an hours stretch in the moses basket/next to me on a night time. He’s formula fed and feeding well so it’s not a hunger wake. He is generally not very fussy and will happily be asleep on us for hours on end. During the day he will happily be put down while we get on with things.
I know they have no regulation of night and day and no circadian rhythm at this age but my first son could go around 3 hour stretches and would be put back down after a feed. He is typically a good sleeper and always has been luckily.

I have NO issue with my baby wanting comfort and to be close to his mummy after being in the womb for so long and me and my husband are taking shifts so we are surviving I am just after reassurance that this is normal and it will improve after a few weeks/months rather than him being a terrible sleeper?!

Lovely baby

My 7 week old daughter is an absolute dream, she doesn't cry (just shouts when she's hungry) very alert, happy and content, just an absolute pleasure to be around. Now I know how incredibly lucky I am with her but does any other mum with a similar baby struggle mentally? There's so many what ifs going through my mind and I'm scared to death she might change and start screaming, some days i feel sick with anxiety and nothing has actually happened? I'm driving myself crazy and scaring myself with thoughts of not being able to cope. I feel ridiculous because I know a lot of mums on here are seriously going through it and I have no idea how you manage xx

Does anyone delay kids bedtimes when grandparents are over?

My in laws come over every Friday evening and so my husband doesn’t want to ruin their time with his parents so bedtime isn’t until 9/9.30pm. This is every week. Would you be ok with this? We have an almost 4 year old, 2.5 year old and 8 month old so it’s a tough juggle.