It’s been a battle 😩

I feel you! I’m at home with my 2 year old and 4 month old. It’s a lot! You’re definitely reminding me what the future holds

Everyone always said it would get easier as my kids got older. I am not finding that to be true.

Everyone always expects the mom to be the flexible one. Could your husband try to find something more flexible so can he can help you?!

Maybe people meant middle school? I have two in high school and one in middle school and I'm now feeling a weight lifted. Don't get me wrong. I still run to school meetings, football games, basketball games, navigate hormones, etc. But I'm not running around bathing people and they all travel independently to and from their respective schools. They clean their rooms, bathe themselves, entertain themselves, go to their dad's house on their own without me even having to speak to the father to coordinate. When they were in younger grades, it gradually got better the more I taught them, but it still involved a lot of hands on work. I hope you start to notice what things get easier and what things get harder. There is a list of each at all stages of motherhood.
Even when they are adults, you will worry or miss them, or they will call you too much or not enough. We just have to appreciate what we do have in each stage.