Anyone elses husband like dead set on having a schedule for sex? For example my husband doesn't like to go more than 3 days without sex. So like every three days he almost expects sex from me, which is honestly frustrating. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood and then he'll say well then I'll ask again tomorrow and so on. Most of the time it feels like I have a lot of pressure to put out.
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It's not scheduled but he definitely is a happier when we connect physically a few times a week. We've been together 16yrs and have 4 kids under 7 but I still strive to give him what he needs. Honestly as humans we do things we're "not in the mood" for all the time so.....

I regret all the unwanted sex i had with my ex i was with for 15 years. He would pester and complain until id give in, and i would be grateful when it was over or when my kid would wake up and cry for me. Personally, sex is about both parties involved joyfully consenting, otherwise it's a no go. Now I'm much happier, doing it only when I'm in the mood.

Yes, he wants to make sure we do it at least 3 times a week 🤣
My mils quite nice btw, I have nothing against her, lovely woman but she always says can’t wait to take the baby to the park or leave overnight when they’re like 2 or 3 but like I neverrr wanna leave my baby anywhere. I just find it weird why do you want alone time with my baby or is it normal? Or am I being over the top? Does anyone leave their babies with the mil? Or thjnk it’s okay or weird and why do you find it weird or ok? 🙈
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I thought things would getter when my kid started elementary school. But between getting the kids ready for school/daycare, drop off, pick up, cooking, working etc. and a husband who is unable to help because of 2 hr commute & non-flexible work schedules…. motherhood has never felt this lonely 😢 aaaaah….. 🤯

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Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out when I see other women my age on holidays, able to do things whenever they feel like it, or even building their careers. I have no regrets cos every moment with my baby is precious, but does anyone else feel like this?
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Anyone elses husband like dead set on having a schedule for sex? For example my husband doesn't like to go more than 3 days without sex. So like every three days he almost expects sex from me, which is honestly frustrating. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood and then he'll say well then I'll ask again tomorrow and so on. Most of the time it feels like I have a lot of pressure to put out.
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All I see are post talm bout they want a friend or a bestie but do y’all really?? Like, who really tryna put in the effort to build a friendship? I’m tired of shit being one sided, dry ass responses, getting ghosted, etc.
Where are the genuine ladies at who actually wanna make connections?

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I want to be in a group chat but I can’t keep up on a big one are there any small ones that is willing to let one more in🥺
I just need girls to rant and be actual friends besides my husband
*my phone plan won’t let me add androids or people out of the states I’m sorry it’s stupid🥺*

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