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Overwhelming anxiety

We have been trying for baby #2 but last night I got swarmed with feelings of overwhelming anxiety, guilt, and shame for things I could and could not control. The point is I never had these feelings before but all of a sudden I have feelings I cannot shake. Feelings and anxiety that are causing physical symptoms, na...

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Innie to outie to innie again in pregnancy.

So I’ve always had an innie bellybutton and then around 2 trimester it became an outie. I’m 38 weeks now and suddenly today I noticed it’s gone back in. I googled and I can’t find anything… what does this mean? Is my baby getting ready to come out?

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Overwhelmed

I feel like I can’t handle being a mom to a toddler. Separation anxiety is so bad I can’t turn around for a second. Can’t cook food or get anything done. I don’t think I can’t handle this. Baby cries horrible cries if I’m not next to them

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38 weeks and struggling 😩

Hey ladies, I’m 38 weeks today (first baby) and am really struggling. Just feel so exhausted and suffering with a lot of pain in my pelvis. So done and ready for baby to come now. Is there anything you really feel that worked for you or helps to bring on labour? Or any tips? PLEASEEEE ❤️

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22 weeks and leaking colostrum?

Having a lot of colostrum from my boobs the last couple of days, has anyone else had it this early?

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Comfort after Circumcision

My LO is getting ready to be circumcised at 7 weeks, I exclusively breastfeed and I was wondering should I expect for him to latch more in those days after for comfort ??

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i feel like a terrible mum!!!

so yesterday my husband accidentally stepped on my littles ones toes. she didnt cry as much yesterday but i woke up to this today and i dont know what to do!!

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MIL rant

I am a week postpartum and I am slowly losing it with my MIL. So I had a rule that I will let people know once I am ready for guests however my baby was in the NICU when he was first born for 4 days and I had my own mum come over to help us with some more clothes and necessities. I then felt bad so I said MIL can co...

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pp intimacy

it’s been more than 3 months pp and my partner didn’t touch me yet. of course it’s hard and we are stressed and sometimes argue and sort it out.. he used to ask if i’ve healed in the first 3-4 weeks and then nothing. finally i’ve decided to try it on my own.. but I ended up crying because I miss him so bad. I tried ...

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New nicu mama

Hi everyone! I had my sweet boy at 34 weeks! And we are currently trying to navigate thru this Nicu life.. I got discharged yesterday, and it was our first night not near him in the hospital. Needless to say me and dad cried ourselfs to sleep.. any motivation support ideas of how to get a good handle on this mental...

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My ex messaged me

I have so many emotions right now. Like why???

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New mum to be dilemma!

I am 23 weeks pregnant with my first baby. Although it is an unplanned pregnancy I knew I wanted to go ahead with it as soon as I found out. I like kids generally and I've developed an urge to be a mom only in the last 2 years maybe but nothing too intense. Today I was spending some time with my nephew and i found m...

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39 weeks

Starting to feel really resentful that I’m in so much pain and discomfort with no end in sight and absolutely fucking had enough.

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post episiotomy

Hi everyone. I had an episiotomy 3 months ago and I think it’s healed well. Only thing I have is if I sit in a bath it feels like I’m sitting on something. I never notice it any other time, just sitting in the bath. Is this normal? Thank you

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I hate anxiety

I hate anxiety so much, for me is life ruining and it started since I was a child I would cry every single day when my dad dropped me off to school then my mom would force us to travel during my childhood literally every summer so I hate airplanes and now her and my sisters are having the time of their life travelin...

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Grandparent over stepping 🤨

So at the moment I’m staying with my family, I have my living situation in another state but me and my BD weren’t on good terms so I left to be around more support. I had my baby she’s now 3weeks I asked my mother to hold my baby while I washer her bottles and so I could have a moment I didn’t think it was a big ide...

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Stress

I been telling my mom that I’m depressed and it’s like she don’t care I just destroyed my whole room because I’m going through stuff and sometimes here voices and all she thinks is I’m trying to get dick or be at the club or streets when I’m literally explaining to here Im not feeling good mentally

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Postpartum

Does anyone deal with postpartum anxiety|health anxiety? I can’t be the only one, right? 😭

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Early labor or braxton hicks?

Hello. 39 weeks 3 days here. Feeling tightening of my belly for 40sec -1min, every 6-13min. No pain in my lower back, only discomfort. The tightening for sure is uncomfortable but not painful. Anybody experiencing this?

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Anybody else feel like after having your baby your partner doesn’t treat you the same way as when you were preggo ?

Not saying I need the same treatment but da*m sometimes I feel like nobody cares about how I’m feeling anymore just worry about the baby

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