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Im weeks 2 into my maternity leave (baby isn't here yet) and I'm stuck on what to do with myself. Baby room is all set, house is clean. I'd take myself out for a walk or sit in the garden but I can't walk very far till my back wrecks. I don't have any friends really to talk to/come visit me & husband is working, when he comes home he can want a bit of alone time to rewind from work which I get but I'm desperate for a bit of human interaction or something to keep me busy 🥺
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Both my girls have been poorly for 6 weeks because my eldest started nursery and it’s literally one thing after another. My youngest threw up all over my bed last night and I just hate seeing them so poorly it’s mentally draining not being able to help them. I have woken up with my whole body aching and the shakes so I’m guessing I’m joining them. I’m struggling and have no one to help. I’m also nearly out of wipes so I have to go out and get some. Honestly just feeling really sorry for myself.Solo parenting has hit hard today 😣😭
Is anyone experiencing loneliness during pregnancy too? I have an amazing partner, who is super helpful in everything. Although he’s happy to listen to me rant, or moan about certain symptoms. We both know that he’ll never truly get it, he’s a man. This is preventing me from sharing things with him, especially prenatal depression traits. It leaves me feeling alone at times. I don’t have other mum friends to relate to. I love to know if I’m the only one feeling like this so I can suck it up, or actually others do feel like this. ❤️🩹
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I feel so lost in the world right now is there any mommas who don’t judge at all ! And have been In a difficult with ex and still loving them but both in weird living situations ? Any mommas who won’t judge I am so lost anymore all I do is cry ? I just want to give up
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Anyone else feel like they’re losing themselves a little? I love my baby, but I miss me. How do you all find yourself again in this blur 🥴?
I told my hubby I didn't feel appreciated by him, and he asked me how did I wanted to feel appreciated, and I didn't know what to say...
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Feeling so lonely as a Sahm of 3 kiddos more and more and not having a village makes it worse. I’m so burnt out and just in a state of stress and my nervous system is just so messed up. I’m so lost in motherhood idk who I am anymore.
For me it has. Before I was told I have mental health issues I felt a lot more confident. I’m not saying I was happy, but I didn’t feel like so ashamed of myself. All I do now is tell myself there’s something wrong with me, when I try to come out of my comfort zone, I feel like a fraud, like everyone is going to find out there is something wrong with me. I don’t believe I can do anything or belong anywhere, I just feel like a freak.
We’ve got a 4 year old and 1 year old. And I feel like we’re hanging on by a thread. Cannot keep up with the housework or laundry even if I feel like I’m trying my hardest. It’s just constant. And I look around and feel like every other parent has it together.
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I feel deeply saddened to always be alone. It's nice to have my baby for company, but it's not the same thing. I wish my husband was able to be home more. He's gone for 2 weeks and he's home for 1 to 3 days. I have one friend and she's usually busy and my family is all usually busy.
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